The Regret of Over-Saving: How to Balance Financial Goals and Family Moments

The Regret of Over-Saving: How to Balance Financial Goals and Family Moments

Updated on Investing, Retirement, Superannuation

A client once shared a poignant regret: “When I was working and the kids were young, I saved too much. It restricted what we did when the family was together.” This simple reflection struck a chord with me. It got me thinking about the delicate balance between saving for the future and living fully in the present. While we all know the importance of financial security, is it possible to save too much—at the expense of the moments that matter most? The Common Paradox of Life We’ve all heard the saying: It’s a cruel irony, isn’t it? In an ideal world, we’d flip the script, having the means to enjoy life when we’re young and energetic while still securing a comfortable retirement. But life rarely works that way. Many people save diligently during their working years, focused on paying off their home, raising their children, and building a retirement nest egg. Yet, some arrive at retirement with a bittersweet realisation: “We saved too much. We missed the chance to create memories when we had the time, energy, and our family around us.” Building Memories to Reduce Regrets For me, financial planning is about more than just numbers; it’s about reducing regret. In retirement, your job is to build memories and enjoy the life you’ve worked so hard for—not just watch your portfolio grow. And this begins long before you retire. Ask yourself: It’s important to recognise that once your children are grown, they’ll have their own lives, responsibilities, and families. The time to connect, travel, and create lasting memories is when they’re still with you. How Do You Know If You’re Saving Too Much? Finding the right balance between saving and spending isn’t easy. It’s why I often turn to one of my most valuable financial planning tools: long-term projections. This approach gives clients a clearer picture of their financial future, helping them make informed decisions about spending today versus saving for tomorrow. The Empty-Nester Advantage One key insight from decades of financial advising is that there’s often a natural progression in savings capacity: This shift often happens in the last 10-15 years before retirement, providing a window to accelerate savings without compromising your quality of life earlier. A Call for Balance This isn’t a green light to spend recklessly or ignore the importance of saving for retirement. Rather, it’s a reminder to strive for balance: Because once retirement and old age set in, the regret of missed opportunities is something no amount of money can fix. Final Thoughts Finding the balance between saving and living is one of the most challenging aspects of financial planning. But with the right tools and mindset, it’s possible to enjoy the best of both worlds: a secure future and a present filled with memories you’ll cherish forever. As always, this is general advice. For tailored financial planning, I recommend speaking with a qualified adviser who can help guide your unique journey. The information provided in this article is general in nature only and does not constitute personal financial advice.  

How to create a Debt Repayment Plan

How to create a Debt Repayment Plan

Budgeting, Finance, Superannuation

Debt can be overwhelming and stressful, but creating a plan to pay it off can help ease that burden. In Australia, household debt is on the rise, with the average household owing over $260,000 in 2021, according to the Australian Bureau of Statistics. If you’re struggling with debt, here are some tips and strategies for creating a debt repayment plan. Create a Budget The first step in creating a debt repayment plan is to create a budget. This will help you understand where your money is going and where you can cut back on expenses. List all of your income and expenses, including bills, rent or mortgage payments, groceries, and any other expenses. Once you have a clear picture of your finances, you can start to identify areas where you can save money. Prioritise High-Interest Debt If you have multiple debts, it’s important to prioritise the ones with the highest interest rates. These debts are costing you the most money in interest charges, so paying them off first will save you money in the long run. Make minimum payments on all of your debts, and put any extra money towards the one with the highest interest rate. Automate Payments Automating your debt payments can help ensure that you don’t miss any payments and incur late fees. Set up automatic payments for the minimum payments on all of your debts, and then add extra payments as you can afford them. This will also help you stay on track with your debt repayment plan. Choose a Repayment Strategy There are different methods of debt repayment, such as the snowball and avalanche methods. The snowball method involves paying off the smallest debt first, while the avalanche method involves paying off the debt with the highest interest rate first. Choose the method that works best for your situation, and stick to it. Case Study Let’s compare two scenarios to see how creating a debt repayment plan can make a difference. Scenario 1: Sarah has $10,000 in credit card debt, with an interest rate of 20%. She is making minimum payments of $200 per month, but is struggling to make progress on paying off the debt. Scenario 2: John has the same amount of credit card debt, but has created a debt repayment plan. He is making minimum payments of $200 per month, but has also cut back on expenses and is putting an extra $200 per month towards the debt. He is using the avalanche method, and has prioritised the credit card with the highest interest rate of 25%. After one year, Sarah will still have $8,360 in credit card debt, and will have paid $1,440 in interest charges. In contrast, John will have paid off $4,800 of his debt, and will have saved $1,200 in interest charges. Creating a debt repayment plan can make a big difference in your financial situation. By creating a budget, prioritising high-interest debt, automating payments, and choosing a repayment strategy, you can take control of your debt and work towards becoming debt-free. If you need help creating a debt repayment plan, speak with our advisers who can provide guidance and support.   The information provided in this article is general in nature only and does not constitute personal financial advice.

How to help your adult child buy their first home

How to help your adult child buy their first home

Updated on Budgeting, Finance, Superannuation

By Robert Goudie This savings strategy is about building a healthy deposit and allowing kids to learn about consistent, regular saving. The strategy will require patience to build a substantial deposit over several years. I also acknowledge that not all parents are able to help their children buy their first home. In my professional life as a personal financial adviser, I have seen many parents assist their children in purchasing their first home.  This has often been done with a lump sum. But, unfortunately, this doesn’t have the bonus of any tax efficiency or teaching children a regular savings habit to give them a sense of achievement. Purchasing a home can be difficult, especially as property prices have increased significantly in recent years. For many people, the high cost of housing (and living) has made it difficult to save a deposit for their first home, and even if they can do so, they may not be able to afford the monthly mortgage payments on a home that is within their budget.  Building a larger deposit can reduce the debt levels needed to buy their first home or even help them to buy in their preferred area. For parents with the financial capacity and want to help their children save for their first home without handing over a large lump sum, this strategy, combined with some patience, provides an effective way to build the deposit faster. (Please note: I would only recommend parents to do so that have met their own retirement financial goals and have the extra capacity to help out)  By subsiding your children’s income regularly, it can allow your child to start salary-sacrificing pre-tax dollars into superannuation – something that they normally couldn’t do without your help. Superannuation salary sacrifice Salary sacrificing is a way for employees in Australia to contribute part of their pre-tax salary into their superannuation account. This can be a tax-effective way to save for retirement because the contributions are taxed at a lower rate than your marginal tax rate. In Australia, the tax rate on contributions made through salary sacrifice is 15%. Contributions are made from your pre-tax salary, which means they are not taxed at the same rate as your income tax. This can be a significant saving if you are on a high marginal tax rate. For example, suppose you are on a marginal tax rate of 45% and were to salary sacrifice $10,000 into your superannuation account. In that case, you will pay $1,500 tax on those contributions (15% of $10,000). However, if you received that $10,000 as salary instead and then contributed it to your superannuation account after tax, you would pay $4,500 in tax (45% of $10,000). In this example, salary sacrificing would save you $3,000 in tax ($4,500 – $1,500). This can be a significant saving, especially over the long term.  However, it is important to note that there are limits on the amount you can salary sacrifice into your superannuation account each year. FHSSS In recent years, the Australian Government has implemented the First Home Superannuation Saver Scheme (FHSSS), allowing individuals to save for their first home inside their superannuation account. The policy was designed to help first-time home buyers save for a deposit more quickly by allowing them to make voluntary contributions to their superannuation account, which can then be withdrawn for a home deposit once certain conditions have been met. Under the FHSSS, individuals can apply to withdraw voluntary contributions of up to $15,000 from any one financial year from 2017 onwards, up to a total of $50,000 across all years. If you are in a couple, this is a combined $100,000.  Again, these contributions are taxed at a rate of 15%, which is generally lower than an individual’s marginal tax rate.  The money saved through the FHSSS can be withdrawn (less the 15% tax) for a home deposit once the individual has held their superannuation account for at least 12 months and met other specific eligibility requirements.  Note that superannuation contributions, including contributions made under the FHSSS, must still be within the standard annual caps for concessional super contributions. The FHSSS is one of several government initiatives aimed at helping Australians save for their first home and addresses housing affordability issues in the country. It is available to Australian citizens and permanent residents aged 18 and older who have not previously owned property in Australia and meet additional eligibility requirements. Let’s crunch the numbers Let’s assume a couple make a $14,705 contribution each into superannuation, earning $80,000 each per year, and continue this strategy for a full four years. We will first look at the amount saved in superannuation that can be used for a first home deposit and compare this saving with after-tax dollars outside the superannuation system.  After four years of salary sacrificing into superannuation and assuming no investment returns, you would have accumulated a combined $99,994. Compare this to saving after-tax dollars; you would have accumulated $77,054 in comparison. If a couple is lucky enough to have the ability to achieve the above, they would have saved $102,000, which is an extra $23,400 when compared to saving in after-tax dollars. Now let’s look at the amount of income that would need to be provided by those generous parents or grandparents to ensure that the household cash flow remains the same:  $15,000 less the marginal tax rate of 34.5% is $9,825 per person or $19,650 for a couple. Other thoughts Of course, many individuals and couples may already be actively saving for their first home deposit. Therefore, they may not need their generous relatives’ full support to achieve the above. Grandparents and parents can also choose to add a lump sum to help them at the time of purchase. It is worth noting that I have seen many clients take significant pleasure in helping their children and seeing the benefit of this assistance whilst they are still alive. However, as mentioned above, any gifting needs to ensure that generous relatives do not compromise…

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